Healthy Living Tips

from the Villa Assisted Living Care Team

Talking to Your Parents About Assisted Living

Starting the Conversation

How to start the conversation with your aging parents about assisted living? This article discusses the importance of talking to your parent about assisted living, the types of questions to ask, and how to make the conversation easier. As our parents age, it can be difficult to think about the best way to ensure their safety and well-being.

Hope these tips below will provide some peace of mind for both you and your parents as you navigate through this delicate period in your life.

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Educate Yourself

Once you learn about senior living options, you’ll be in a better place to evaluate what will work best for your parent.
It’s ok to visit communities on your own so you have a realistic sense of senior living benefits and be able to understand any drawbacks.
By learning about assisted living, you will be informed about the positive aspects of long-term assisted living care.

What Is Assisted Living?

Assisted living is a type of housing and care community for seniors and other adults who require assistance with daily living tasks
Services provided often include meals, medication management, and assistance with activities of daily living
24-hour nursing staff are typically available

Initiating the Conversation

Begin the discussion well before your parent has a serious illness requiring an intervention.
Be mindful of your loved one’s feelings and be prepared to answer questions
Acknowledge that it can be a difficult decision, and let them know that you are available to help
Discuss the advantages of assisted living and how it can help maintain independence

Benefits of Assisted Living

Offers assistance with daily tasks, providing peace of mind
Socializing with other residents and engaging in activities
Access to medical care and services that may not be available at home
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Tips for a Successful Discussion

Respect your loved one’s decision and feelings about the issue
Be patient, and be prepared to answer any questions they may have
Consider visiting an assisted living facility together to get a better understanding of what it would be like to live there
Remember, it’s their decision. Unless your parent is unable to care for themselves, let them know you will respect their final wishes. Make sure they know you love them and have their best interest in mind.